How I decide which books to keep on my shelves

A few years ago I wrote a blog post called A look at my fiction bookshelf. Looking back, I can't believe that I owned so few fiction books! It was a very heavily curated collection, and while it does contain many of my favourites, let's just say that things have moved on a great deal in the last decade or so.

While I am still choosy about the books that I keep, and I do pass on many, I now have a large bookshelf for fiction books in our living room piled high with books that I've loved. Most have been read multiple times, and the others are ones that I know I will re-read. 

My collection began to increase a few years ago when I discovered the joy of second-hand book shopping. I re-purchased books which I had previously decluttered, I bought my own copies of books that I had borrowed, and I took a chance on authors that I had enjoyed. I have a lot more time for reading now, and online life constantly exposes me to new and tempting books. 

I love displaying my book collection. I am very proud of it, and although these books are my favourites I do still sort through it regularly. There comes a time when I need to make space for new books! Every book on my shelves is one that has earned its place for the time being, and looking over it makes me feel happy. I enjoy when bookish friends come to visit and I'm always happy to lend out books to anyone that might be interested.

This is how a book finds a place in my permanent fiction collection:

Many of my books are sentimental. I have a collection of Enid Blyton and similar books from my Dad, and old editions of books from both my Grandmas. I just love old books, and I can't resist taking them if someone in the family is passing them on. 

It speaks to me. I read a wide range of books, and I can usually tell at once whether a book will fit this category. It's really difficult to describe, but while there are many books that I enjoy while I'm reading them there are some books which touch something in me more deeply. These are the ones that I keep because I know that I'll want to read them again some day. I've had regrets in the past after I've passed on books, so I'm a little more careful now because I know that I'll only end up buying them again!

It's part of a series. This is a difficult one for me, because I find it difficult to break up a series even if I only like some of the books. At the moment I'm struggling with the Book of Dust trilogy by Philip Pullman. I loved the first book, La Belle Sauvage, but I found the second and third very difficult to get through. They are big books, and it would save me some space if I passed them along, but I can't bear to get rid of the matching set!

You will notice that I've only been referring to my fiction book collection and I must confess that this is just a part of it. I also have a bookshelf containing children's fiction books, both originals from my childhood and reprints that I've purchased. Not to mention my non-fiction bookshelf. Maybe I'll share those one day too!

Do you remember the books that you've read?

"I cannot remember the books I've read any more than the meals I have eaten; even so, they have made me."

- Ralph Waldo Emerson

Regular readers of this blog will know that I consider myself to be a somewhat voracious reader. I always have a book or three on the go, and I read across different genres as well as a mix of fiction and non-fiction. I read quickly but carefully, I don't skip ahead, and with a well written book I enjoy savouring each word. Sometimes I even take notes, or at least write short impressions in my journal.

However I must admit that I am terrible at remembering a book once I've finished it. I usually find that there is something in each book I read that really sticks with me. It might be an event, a character, or even just a small piece of description. Apart from that, after a few weeks the plot is generally lost to me.

People will often ask me if I've read a particular book, and I know that I have, but I just can't remember what it was about. I can watch a film adaptation without worry because I have no idea how the story ends, let alone if it was faithful to the book. Many times I've gone to log a new book in Goodreads and discover that I've already read it, sometimes quite recently.

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I have a particular problem with books that I read on Kindle. I think it's because both the tactile experience of a physical book and seeing the book cover around help it to fix in my mind. All Kindle books look exactly the same when you are reading them, whereas physical books vary in font size, type and page colour.

However once I've finished a book I do have a very strong impression of whether or not I liked it. If it's a physical book that I loved then it goes straight onto my bookshelf, and I can re-read with joy because even if I can't remember it I know that it is worth it. And some of my favourite books I have read many times, and I can remember them well.

When I really get into a book I literally can't put it down. That's why I love the portability of my Kindle - I can have it in one hand while I stir the dinner or brush my teeth. There is also always a new book that I want to read. So I view my experience of reading very much as something that I am enjoying in the moment. It doesn't matter too much if all I can remember about the book is that I loved reading it!

Can you remember all the books that you've read?

How I decide what to read next

I keep all my unread books in a 'to be read' pile on my bedside table. I have a mixture of brand new books that I've purchased or received as gifts, second hand books from charity shops and online, books that I've borrowed from friends or family, and occasionally library books. I also have a slightly hidden 'to be read' collection on my Kindle - books that I've downloaded free from Amazon at various times.

Although I enjoy reading down through the pile, I don't want to actually get to the end because I enjoy having a selection of books to choose from. I read a variety of books, from light fiction to longer reads, recent releases and classics, and also plenty of non-fiction. So I want to have at least one or two books from each category to choose from!

I generally only read one book at a time, and as I approach the end I'm always eyeing up my next read. I try to mix it up, so if I've read an easy book I'll look for one with a bit more depth or I'll swap to one from a different genre.  

If I know that I've got a busy time coming up then I'll look for easy to read books, planning to pick them up and down for short bursts of reading. If I know that I've got some reading time coming up, like a long flight or a relaxing holiday, then I'll reach for a nice chunky book or a classic novel.

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But how do I choose the books that I'm adding to my 'to be read' pile?

I find book recommendations in lots of places. I learn about new non-fiction books from the podcasts that I listen to, which tend to be in the wellbeing or technology niches. If I've listened to an interesting podcast I'll often have a look at the book they are plugging, read a few reviews, and see if it looks like a worthwhile read. I've found some great books this way, most recently Enshittification by Cory Doctorow and I've got my eye on The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt. 

I have a friend who lends me lots of brilliant books that she's found, and I usually have one or two on loan. She is very similar to me in terms of reading taste, and I'm very grateful!

I'm always listening for people talking about books. Sometimes I'll catch a reference to an old classic book and think 'I really should read that'. The classics are usually available for free on Kindle because they are out of copyright - I've just downloaded David Copperfield after really enjoying the modern retelling Demon Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver. 

If I hear about a book that appeals but I can't justify paying full price then I'll look over on World of Books. I have a running list of books that I want to buy saved in a Notes file, and I try to buy in batches of four as they usually have a 'buy 3 get one free' promotion that covers many of their titles. World of Books is great for books that are a bit niche or out of print as the prices are very reasonable - I've been stocking up on biographical books about Everest which are expensive to buy new.

I don't really listen to any podcasts or shows about new releases, because I would find everything too tempting! But if I find out that one of my favourite authors has released a new book then I'll add it to my wish list in anticipation of a birthday or Christmas gift. I'm also often swayed by the Booker Prize shortlists, I rarely actually buy the books but I make a note of any that sound good for future reading.

Finally if I really have reached the end of my 'to be read' pile then I can always find something that I want to read in the library. Sometimes it's another book by an author that I've enjoyed, or a book that I've seen mentioned online. When I'm browsing I definitely judge a book by its cover, so at least with a library book I don't have to worry about wasting money if I've misjudged it!

I love hearing from other readers about how they choose their next book!

What reading gives me

I've always been a reader. I read quite widely - various genres, historical and modern novels, long and short books, mainly fiction but also non-fiction. I always have a book on the go, as well as a 'to be read' pile on my bedside table, and a notes document detailing the books that I want to add to my collection.  

I've been reading even more lately as I try to replace screen time with books, and it led me to reflect on all the benefits that being a regular reader gives me.

At the moment, I'm really noticing how reading helps with my ability to focus. Not just when I'm actually reading, but I'm finding that in situations when I can't read (for example when I'm exercising or cooking) I'm quite happy to just think my own thoughts. Especially if I'm reading a book which has really grabbed my interest - I'll be thinking about the characters and scenarios.

I love a book that gives me an insight into a different time or culture. Particularly those written by women about women - I like to learn about how life has changed over time. I'm especially drawn to books written and set before the internet and smartphones. Like classic novels where people write long, descriptive letters to each other and spend time together just enjoying each other's company.

I prefer to read in long, uninterrupted stretches, especially in bed at the end of the day. But that doesn't happen very often so I have to find moments when I can - I read while eating lunch, in the car while I wait at school pick up, when I find myself with a few spare minutes during the day. I find it relaxing and a way to switch off from what's around me.

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Sometimes reading a book will inspire me to try something new. If I read a book about someone that grows vegetables then then it makes me want to get out in my own garden, or I might feel like trying a new way of cooking or a new craft. I enjoy books about people that make positive changes in their lives and it helps me to think about things that I could change.

There are some books that I turn to when I need some help in stressful times. I have a whole shelf of comfort reading books which are mainly children's books - The Swish of the Curtain series, A Little Princess, the Little House on the Prairie books. I can pick them up, I know exactly what will happen, and can often finish them in just a few sittings. 

Reading is so important to me, and I want to make sure that I'll always be a reader even as screens become more and more addictive!