I needed to clear my head this morning, so even though it was raining I took myself for a cold, blustery walk along the beach.
Friday, 31 January 2025
A rainy walk along the beach
Monday, 20 January 2025
Going through my Ebay phase
A few years ago I remember loving this post from Mum of Three World - My son, gaming and the eBay phase. She wrote about how her two sons had both gone through an 'eBay phase', busily selling both their own and other people's things on eBay. Apparently many teenage boys go through this, so I've been eagerly awaiting the day when one of my teenagers shows an interest. Sadly it hasn't happened yet!
Now that our extension work is complete, I've been working on moving everything back in to our new space, and also casting my eyes over the other rooms. In particular our top floor guest bedroom has become a dumping ground for toys which the children have outgrown. Most of the room was filled with huge boxes and drawers of Lego, both sorted and unsorted.
The Lego has been bothering me for some time. The children have many sets that they love and want to keep, even some on display in their rooms, but there are also lots of sets that were only built once and never played with. My husband is a sucker for a bargain! There were a couple of unopened Star Wars Lego sets, some Minecraft Lego, and lots of those tiny sets which at one point they used to give away free with the newspaper.
I've been collecting boxes for ages, and so a month or so ago I gathered all the Lego in one place and began the painstaking task of sorting it all out. I've always been pretty good with the Lego and many sets were together and complete, but I had a huge box of random Lego which I had to hunt through again and again to find a missing piece. In the end I just sorted the odd bits of Lego out into categories - it took a whole weekend but it made the whole job much easier!
I decided that the best place to sell was eBay. We've been using eBay since 2002 and have bought and sold a reasonable amount over the years so our account is in good standing. Things have changed a lot over the years, and the process is so much easier. There are also no fees at the moment and the money can go straight to your bank account so there are no PayPal fees like there used to be.
Timeless Tales: Uncover Europe's most captivating libraries
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Libraries are sanctuaries of knowledge, culture, and history, serving as gateways to the vast worlds contained within books. Across Europe, stunning libraries beckon with their architectural beauty and rich collections. From the grand halls of ancient institutions to modern spaces that inspire creativity, these libraries are not only places to read but also to marvel at the artistry and dedication that has gone into their creation. If you’re looking to explore the literary heart of Europe, embark on a journey that takes you from the classics in Paris to contemporary wonders in Amsterdam, all connected by scenic train routes.
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The Historic Elegance of the Bibliothèque Nationale de France
In the heart of Paris, the Bibliothèque Nationale de France (BNF) stands as a testament to France’s literary heritage. Established in the 14th century, this library has evolved over the centuries and now boasts an extensive collection that includes rare manuscripts, maps, and historical documents. The striking architecture of the BNF, particularly its modern François Mitterrand site with its towering glass towers, offers a beautiful contrast to the historical elements of the collection.
Visitors can easily spend hours wandering through the reading rooms, admiring the intricate details of the architecture and soaking in the scholarly atmosphere. If you're travelling on the train from Paris to Amsterdam, the BNF makes a perfect starting point for your literary adventure, allowing you to indulge in the romance of French literature before heading north.
Amsterdam’s Iconic Openbare Bibliotheek
Once you arrive in Amsterdam, the Openbare Bibliotheek is a must-visit. This modern public library, located along the waterfront, is one of the largest in Europe and is designed to be a hub of creativity and community. Its sleek, contemporary architecture features spacious reading rooms, a café with a view of the city, and a children’s area that invites families to explore the joys of reading together.
The library hosts numerous events, including author readings and workshops, making it a vibrant part of Amsterdam’s cultural scene. As you relax with a book, you can also enjoy stunning views of the city and the IJ River. The Openbare Bibliotheek is a fantastic place to spend a rainy afternoon, and it serves as a perfect conclusion to your journey through some of Europe’s most enchanting libraries.
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The Literary Legacy of the Edinburgh Central Library
In the heart of Edinburgh, the Edinburgh Central Library is another must-visit for literature lovers. Established in 1890, this grand library not only serves as a resource for the community but also stands as an architectural landmark with its stunning Victorian facade. Inside, visitors can explore a vast collection that includes over a million books, manuscripts, and periodicals. The library hosts various events, including author talks, poetry readings, and workshops, fostering a vibrant literary community. One of its highlights is the Writers’ Room, dedicated to Scotland’s literary greats, which showcases the works and lives of authors such as Sir Walter Scott and Robert Louis Stevenson. With its welcoming atmosphere and rich history, the Edinburgh Central Library invites visitors to immerse themselves in the literary traditions of Scotland while enjoying the charm of this historic city. After soaking in the literary legacy of Edinburgh, visitors can easily take the Edinburgh to London train, to explore the capital's renowned libraries.
The Rich History of the British Library
No exploration of London's literary scene would be complete without a visit to the British Library, one of the world’s largest and most comprehensive libraries. Established in 1973, the British Library houses over 170 million items, including rare manuscripts, maps, and recordings, making it a treasure trove for scholars and casual readers alike. Among its most prized possessions are the Magna Carta, the original manuscript of “Alice's Adventures in Wonderland,” and letters from historical figures such as Jane Austen and Virginia Woolf. The library's striking architecture, featuring a blend of modern and traditional styles, provides a unique backdrop for its extensive collections. With numerous exhibitions and events throughout the year, the British Library not only serves as a research hub but also as a cultural centre that celebrates literature, history, and the arts. Visitors can enjoy the tranquil reading rooms or partake in workshops that delve into various aspects of literary history. After a visit to this iconic institution, guests can continue their literary journey by exploring other historic libraries across the city.
The Literary Haven of the National Library of Scotland
While in Scotland, don’t miss the National Library of Scotland in Edinburgh. This library is a treasure trove of knowledge, housing millions of items including manuscripts, maps, and audio-visual materials. The library’s impressive collection reflects the rich literary heritage of Scotland and its contributions to global culture.
The stunning architecture and serene reading spaces make it a delightful place for scholars and casual readers alike. The National Library frequently hosts exhibitions and events that showcase Scottish history, literature, and the arts, providing visitors with a deeper understanding of the nation’s cultural identity.
Modern Marvels: The Stuttgart City Library
If your travels take you to Germany, the Stuttgart City Library is an architectural marvel worth exploring. This modern library stands out for its striking white facade and minimalist design, offering a stark contrast to traditional library aesthetics. Inside, the library boasts an open and airy layout, with shelves that stretch to the ceiling and a central atrium flooded with natural light.
Visitors are encouraged to explore the library’s vast collection, which includes books in multiple languages, multimedia resources, and spaces for reading and study. The Stuttgart City Library is not just a place to borrow books; it’s a community hub that hosts workshops, art exhibitions, and cultural events, making it a vibrant part of the city’s life.
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The Legacy of the Library of Trinity College Dublin
Lastly, in Dublin, the Library of Trinity College is a historical gem that should not be overlooked. Home to the famous Book of Kells, this library is an iconic symbol of Irish heritage. The Long Room, with its rows of ancient books and beautiful wooden arches, is a breathtaking sight and a favourite spot for photography.
Visitors can take guided tours to learn about the history of the library and its collection, as well as the importance of the Book of Kells in Irish culture. The tranquil environment encourages reflection, making it an ideal place to immerse oneself in the world of literature.
The Magnificence of the Royal Library of Belgium
As you journey into Belgium, a stop at the Royal Library of Belgium in Brussels is essential. Known locally as the Koninklijke Bibliotheek, this library is one of the largest and most important in the country. The library's impressive collection includes works from the Renaissance period, a significant collection of Flemish manuscripts, and a vast array of contemporary literature.
The architecture is equally captivating, with its blend of neo-Renaissance and modern styles. The library regularly hosts exhibitions, making it an excellent place to experience Belgium’s cultural richness. This library embodies the spirit of Belgian creativity, and its tranquil reading areas are perfect for a quiet moment with a good book.
Conclusion: A Journey Through Europe's Literary Landscape
As you travel through Europe, the captivating libraries you encounter will enrich your understanding of each country’s literary and cultural heritage. From the historic elegance of the Bibliothèque Nationale de France to the modern innovation of the Stuttgart City Library, these institutions offer much more than just books—they are living monuments to the power of knowledge and creativity.
Each library tells a story of its own, inviting you to step inside and discover the timeless tales that await within their walls. Embrace the beauty of these literary havens and let them inspire your journey through Europe.
Friday, 17 January 2025
Traditions in a Cup: Try the art of tea ceremonies in China and Japan
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The rich cultural heritage of East Asia is beautifully encapsulated in the art of tea ceremonies. Both China and Japan have long histories of tea preparation and consumption, each with its own distinct traditions and practices. Exploring these traditions offers an immersive experience that connects you with the past, the art of tea-making, and the values that these cultures hold dear. Whether you are embarking on tours to Japan or travelling between cities in China, the tea ceremony is an experience not to be missed.
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The Essence of Chinese Tea Culture
China is often considered the birthplace of tea, and its tea culture is as diverse as its geography. From the bustling tea houses of Beijing to the serene landscapes of the tea-growing regions in Yunnan and Fujian, the country offers a wealth of opportunities to explore this ancient tradition. In China, tea ceremonies are often less formal than their Japanese counterparts, with an emphasis on sharing and community.
During a traditional Chinese tea ceremony, the focus is on the interaction between the host and guests. The process involves multiple steps, including the selection of the tea leaves, the warming of the teapot, and the careful pouring of the tea. Each type of tea has its own specific brewing requirements, and learning these intricacies can be a delightful experience.
One of the best ways to engage with this aspect of Chinese culture is by participating in a tea ceremony workshop. Many cities, including Guangzhou, offer classes where you can learn about different teas, their origins, and the health benefits they provide. If you find yourself travelling on a train from Guangzhou to Hong Kong, consider stopping at a local tea house for a taste of their finest brews.
Embracing the Japanese Tea Ceremony
In Japan, the tea ceremony, known as “chanoyu” or “sado,” is a highly ritualised practice that embodies harmony, respect, purity, and tranquillity. Unlike the more informal Chinese tea ceremonies, the Japanese version is steeped in tradition and aesthetics, reflecting centuries of refinement. The ceremony typically involves matcha, a finely ground green tea, and is conducted in a tranquil setting that encourages mindfulness and appreciation for the moment.
The tea ceremony consists of several stages, including the preparation of the tea, the serving to guests, and the enjoyment of the drink. The host carefully follows a series of precise movements, each laden with meaning, from cleaning the utensils to whisking the matcha. Guests are encouraged to savour the experience, contemplating the flavour and aroma of the tea while admiring the beauty of the tea utensils.
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The Influence of Regional Variations
Tea Ceremonies as a Window into Culture
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Discovering Tea Beyond the Ceremony
A Journey of Discovery
Thursday, 16 January 2025
Review preview - CuteBee Book Nook Kit with a Christmas theme
I received this kit in exchange for a review
Readers of this blog will know that I love crafting and I love reading, so what could be better than a craft which makes a lovely addition to a bookshelf! I have just made a start on this Book Nook craft kit from CuteBee, and so I'm sharing my first impressions before I begin to work on the kit and can share the finished product.
The Book Nook kit is a 3D wooden puzzle with lots of tiny pieces which are slotted together to form a Book Nook - a miniature world which can be displayed on your bookshelf. This kit is called the Christmas Wish Store and features all sorts of sweet little Christmas themed items, including a tree, a train and all sorts of toys and decorations.
Unused pieces can be stored in the original box, but I found it helpful to have a separate tray to keep the components that are assembled so that they don't get lost or damaged. So far I've built a storage box and a tiny train, and I found putting the pieces together to be really fun and absorbing.
Tuesday, 31 December 2024
Reasons to start a journal in the New Year
With a fresh new year around the corner, it's the perfect time to start a regular journalling habit! I've written many times on this blog about how I love writing in my journals - I use a bullet style journal to plan my week and a blank journal which I fill with my thoughts, ephemera and simple sketches. I find that journalling is a great way to keep those superfluous thoughts from running around inside my head, and it's also a way of bringing a dose of creativity to my daily life.
Why start a journal in the New Year?
It's a great time to start a journal. When a new year begins it's natural to want to reflect on the year just gone and to plan the year ahead. Everyone else is doing the same thing so there is plenty of motivation, and after the excess of Christmas you are in the mood to clear some space both physically and mentally.
What do you need to get started?
Recently I wrote an article on how to journal when you don't know where to start and it contains plenty of advice to help you get over any block you might have to starting. All you need is something to write on and something to write with, and you don't need any expensive supplies. You probably already have a blank notebook around that has been waiting for a purpose!
When it comes to physically putting pen to paper, I always start a new journal a few pages in. Then I can come back and fill the first couple of pages at a later date, or else I fill them with stickers and ephemera as time goes on.
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What are the benefits of a regular journalling habit?
I find writing in my journal an enormous help to my wellbeing. When I have too many things running through my head, writing them down helps to clear my mind and organise my thoughts. It helps my anxiety to get things down on paper, and it's also really relaxing.
Journalling helps me to work through and solve problems, for example a tricky decision that needs to be made. Often writing out a pros and cons list can help to find the answer that I'm looking for.
In the new year I like to think about the things that I want to work on and achieve. For example changes that I want to make to my lifestyle, or things that I want to do. A journal can help to keep a record and track progress, or be a list of places to visit, recipes to make, activities to try.
Recently on social media I've been seeing examples of dopamine menus. I don't like the name but I do like the concept - it's basically just a list of things that you enjoy doing. I had a similar list in my first bullet journal and I'm definitely going to create a new one for my next journal.
Writing regularly can create a lovely record of things that you've done, especially when going through a life event that you will want to look back on. For example I've been journalling about the building of our house extension, both a factual account of what has been happening and also how I've been feeling about it at the time.
Keeping a journal and pen handy is a great way to reduce screen time. You can fill a few minutes by jotting down some thoughts, or else settle down for a longer session away from the screen with a hot drink and a good view.
Journalling is also a great way to improve creativity. I like to try out different layouts and styles, accessorise pages with stickers and washi tape, or try some simple sketches and start an illustrated journal.
Finally...
One important thing that I want to mention is a reminder that your journal is personal to you. Don't feel the pressure to share it on social media - when you see beautiful journal pages online they have been created for that purpose and are designed to gather views and interaction. They can be great for inspiration, but can also make you feel inadequate and feel like stopping when you've barely begun.
Start with some cheap supplies so that you aren't intimidated by a beautiful journal that you don't want to ruin, and just take it from there!
Monday, 30 December 2024
Ultimate bedroom tips that your kids will surely love
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Your child’s bedroom should be a reflection of who they are—a space where they feel at ease and inspired to explore their interests. Balancing practicality with creativity can turn their room into a multi-functional space for rest, play, and learning.
Thoughtful choices in furniture, decor, and storage can create an environment that’s not only visually appealing but also supports their development. These tips will guide you in crafting a bedroom that blends style with purpose and leaves your kids beaming with excitement.
1. Maximise Space for Play and Exploration
Kids love having enough room to play and explore, and a clutter-free space allows for better creativity and movement. A well-organised room encourages them to engage in their favourite activities and makes the room feel more open and welcoming.
Start by choosing furniture that saves space, such as beds with built-in storage or compact desks. Use vertical storage solutions like shelving and wall hooks to keep the floor clear for activities.
Creating defined zones for play, rest, and learning helps children feel that every part of the room has a purpose. For instance, a colourful rug can mark the play area, while a comfortable beanbag chair can set the stage for reading or relaxing.
2. Focus on Colours and Themes Kids Can Relate To
A kid-friendly bedroom should reflect their interests and make them feel at home. Choosing the right colours and themes can make a big difference in how much they enjoy their space.
Opt for bright, cheerful colours or muted tones with pops of their favourite hues. Themes like animals, outer space, or their favourite book characters can make the room feel exciting and personal. If your child loves change, go for interchangeable decor such as wall decals, bedding, or themed cushions so the room can evolve as their tastes grow.
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3. Inspire Creativity with a Loft Bed with a Desk
A loft bed with a desk is an ideal way to combine functionality and creativity in your child’s room. This multi-functional furniture piece maximises space by elevating the sleeping area, leaving room below for a dedicated workspace. Whether it’s for homework, art projects, or imaginative play, this setup provides your child with a sense of ownership and an environment that encourages productivity and inspiration.
- Maximises Floor Space: The elevated design frees up valuable room for a desk underneath, creating a practical area for studying or crafting without compromising the overall space in the bedroom.
- Encourages Focus and Independence: A dedicated workspace below the loft bed helps your child concentrate on tasks like homework or hobbies while teaching them responsibility for their personal area.
- Sparks Creativity and Play: The playful design of a loft bed naturally excites children, making the room feel dynamic and engaging. Themed options, like castle or treehouse designs, add an imaginative element that children adore.
- Customisable and Practical: Add task lighting, a comfortable chair, and storage bins to make the desk area more functional and tailored to your child’s preferences. You can personalise the space further with decor that reflects their interests and personality.
A loft bed with a desk is especially beneficial for smaller rooms, as it consolidates sleeping, working, and playing zones into a compact footprint. By choosing a design that complements your child’s interests and needs, you create a space that is both practical and inspiring, making their room a true haven for creativity and growth.
4. Add Cosy Elements for Comfort and Relaxation
Transform your child’s bedroom into a comforting retreat by adding soft textures, warm lighting, and thoughtful details. Start with their bed—layer it with plush throws, colorful pillows, and soft sheets to make it irresistibly inviting. A bed that feels cozy not only helps your child relax but also becomes a space they look forward to spending time in.
Create a designated corner for unwinding by adding a small armchair, beanbag, or floor cushions. This spot can double as a reading nook or a quiet retreat where your child can relax with a book or listen to their favourite music.
Lighting plays a key role in setting the mood, so opt for warm-toned lamps, fairy lights, or a soothing nightlight. These touches make the room feel safe and calming, helping your child wind down at the end of the day.
5. Make Storage Fun and Accessible
Make tidying up a part of the fun by designing storage solutions that are both functional and engaging for your child. Start by choosing bins, baskets, or storage boxes in playful colors or patterns that match the room’s theme. These visually appealing options motivate your child to use them, making organisation feel like an enjoyable activity.
Install low-level cubby shelves or open cabinets where toys, books, and games can be displayed and easily accessed. Incorporating hooks at their height for hanging coats, backpacks, or costumes empowers your child to organise their belongings independently. Label bins or baskets with pictures or icons to make clean-up even more straightforward for younger children.
6. Encourage Active Play with Creative Features
Turn your child’s bedroom into a space where they can release their energy and engage their imagination by incorporating elements for active play. A slide attached to a bunk bed or a small climbing wall can instantly elevate the room’s fun factor. These features encourage movement and provide an outlet for your child’s natural energy right in their own room.
For a simpler addition, try including a pop-up play tent, an indoor swing, or soft floor mats for tumbling or yoga. These additions are easy to integrate into the room and offer hours of engagement. By introducing features that blend play and movement, you create a space that’s not just for rest but also a hub for activity and exploration.
7. Personalise with Sentimental Touches
Make your child’s bedroom uniquely theirs by adding personal touches that reflect their achievements, interests, and memories. Start by creating a gallery wall where you can frame their artwork, certificates, or favorite family photos. Seeing these meaningful pieces on display will give your child a sense of pride and ownership over their space.
Add a memory box or shelf where they can store keepsakes, from birthday cards to small mementos of family trips. Displaying their sports trophies, musical instruments, or favourite collectibles reinforces their individuality and creates a space they feel deeply connected to.
Your child’s bedroom is more than just a space—it’s a canvas for their growth and self-expression. By choosing adaptable furniture, encouraging active play, and adding personal touches, you can design a room that grows with them. These tips help you create a flexible and engaging environment that supports your child’s changing needs while remaining a favourite place in your home.