Journalling and bullet journal supplies for Halloween

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I love writing in my notebooks, and I have two journals consistently on the go. I use my bullet journal to plan my weekly schedule and keep track of my tasks for the day, then I use my illustrated journal to write down my thoughts and also as a creative outlet for small sketches and collages. I enjoy theming them both to the time of year, and with Halloween coming up I thought I'd share some Halloween themed supplies which would work really well for all types of journalling. 

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Almost all of my bullet journal pages are edged with a strip of washi tape, I just love it! I have a pack of Halloween themed washi tape that I bought a few years ago and it's the perfect way to give a page an instant Halloween look. If you want something similar then you might like this big pack of cheerful Halloween washi tape, or you might prefer something darker like this huge set of magic and witch themed washi tape. 

When I'm working on a themed journal page, I often use some patterned paper as a background or as matting for a piece of ephemera. Something like this Halloween paper ephemera would work perfectly, or for a less bulky look some Halloween tissue paper would also work really well. 

I use stickers in both my bullet journal and my illustrated journal. For my bullet journal I like to use something small and fun, like these simple Halloween stickers. I especially like the small icons which you could use as bullet point markers. The stickers below are part of my Aesthetic Planner Stickers set which covers holidays and occasions throughout the year. But for my journal I want something a bit more dramatic, so I often go for some printed collage images which you can have fun cutting out and arranging on the page. I love this Vintage Halloween Ephemera Collection which is packed with spooky illustrations for all sorts of paper Halloween projects.

Until recently I always used the same fountain pen for writing in my journal, but after buying some new pens in gorgeous colours I've started to mix it up a bit. I use a new pen colour each day to make my entries stand out, and at this time of year I'm really drawn to autumnal colours. I have a set of these lovely pens - Zebra Sarasa gel pens - which come in a range of muted, vintage colours and are really comfortable to write with. It's difficult to choose a favourite colour but at the moment I'm really enjoying the golden yellow and the dark red.

Halloween usually calls for more muted, darker colours, so you can reflect this in the other accents that you use in your journal. For example coloured sticky tabs as bookmarks or to help find a certain journal page. I also love these fun Autumn leaf sticky notes which really stand out, both to use in a bullet journal or as a quick reminder around the house. 

I hope you enjoyed these ideas for bringing some Halloween fun to your journal pages this month!

Halloween activities for older children and teenagers

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I've always enjoyed having fun at Halloween with my children, but now that they are older we've sadly moved beyond Halloween toilet roll tube crafts and dressing up in sweet costumes for trick or treating. It doesn't mean that they are too old for the fun though, there are still plenty of crafts and activities that are more suited to older children. Here are some of my favourites!

Carving pumpkins

This is the classic Halloween activity, and is definitely one of our favourite Halloween traditions. I'm not the best at carving pumpkins myself, and I tend to stick with a simple grinning face. But there are loads of pumpkin carving templates available, and if you can trust your teenager with a sharp knife then they may enjoy attempting something a bit more complicated.

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Doing some Halloween themed baking 

My favourite Halloween bake was these Halloween iced gingerbread biscuits. They are so simple to make, and with some clever icing you can make all sorts of different designs. Even if you don't have any specific Halloween cookie cutters you can still improvise with what you have - I used gingerbread men cutters for mummies and Easter egg cutters for skulls! You can also make really simple Halloween cupcakes with some edible eye decorations and a selection of icing in vibrant colours. 

Making Halloween decorations

The children might have grown out of toddler Halloween crafts, but you can still get them involved in decorating the house for Halloween. Just bear in mind that as they get older their imagination might turn towards more realistic and gruesome ideas! You could think about a theme for the whole house, including window displays, lighting and garden decorations. I also love the idea of repurposing some of their toys into Halloween decorations, like old dolls and stuffed animals. Then on the night itself they can dress up to help hand out sweets to the younger visitors.

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Painting ceramic decorations

My children have always enjoyed pottery painting, and there are some lovely kits available, either classic Halloween designs or maybe something a bit more grown up like a decorative pumpkin or sugar skull. I find that the kits don't always contain the best paints, so we usually use our own acrylic paints and take the time to mix the correct colours and let the layers dry in between coats for a nicer finish. 

Taking photos at a pumpkin patch

They might be a bit old now to pose prettily next to an aesthetic pumpkin display, but if your teenager enjoys taking photographs then they might still enjoy a visit to the local pumpkin patch. It's a fun family day out and they can take some photos to share with friends on social media.

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Having a scary Halloween adventure

If your teenager doesn't scare too easily then they might enjoy something a bit more adventurous like a Halloween themed escape room or horror maze. In the UK these are becoming much more common, and although they are a little too terrifying for me I can imagine that plenty of teens would love them, especially if they can visit with their friends rather than their boring parents!

Have fun celebrating Halloween with your older children!

Things that have made me happy over the last week

I am living in a bit of upheaval at the moment and it feels as though I have a lot going on. The disruption isn't too bad, but I am finding that it's more difficult to keep to my usual routine and that can leave me feeling a bit out of sorts. So I thought I'd think about some of the things that have made me feel happy over the last week or so!

Our orangery extension - It's really coming together now, we have windows and doors and will have the roof and some plastering completed by the end of the week. There have been so many decisions to make which I find hard work, but we are getting there and the end is in sight. 

Getting out for a run - I've not managed this as often as I'd like, but I'm also good at finding excuses. Even when I'm expecting builders and deliveries I can usually pop out at some point for half an hour, and I feel so much better when I've managed it.

Fresh brownies - I cheat a little with my brownies and I use a mix from Costco (Ghirardelli Triple Chocolate Brownie Mix - yum!), and we don't get there often. It's been out of stock the last few visits and I was worried that they might have discontinued it, but luckily on a recent visit I was able to stock up!

Cups of tea - I don't have a tea drinking habit but I've been making them for the builders and I have discovered that I quite enjoy a regular cup, especially on a cold day!

My journal - I find that writing in my journal really helps to clear my head. I don't share my writing anywhere, it's not especially private but I'd be embarrassed if someone were to read it. I've been writing about the progress with our extension, some of the things that I've seen while out and about, and I also had a lovely time making a collage with some of my favourite inspirational images from the Christmas Lakeland catalogue!

A trip to Ikea - I love an Ikea trip. Ikea doesn't just sell products it also sells a lifestyle, and I really want that lifestyle. We didn't even buy that much, our main reason to visit was to buy a mirror and some lightbulbs, but of course some other things fell in the trolley as we were walking around. I did manage to resist the gorgeous Christmas scented candles though!

A wooden tray to serve my lunch - I bought this tray a year or so ago from Flying Tiger and I hadn't really used it because it had some greasy residue on it that I couldn't clean off. I finally gave it a scrub with some WD40 and it cleaned up brilliantly, so now I am treating myself to aesthetic lunch displays!

Hot water bottles - Even in summer I usually cosy up at night with a hot water bottle! I love an early night with my fluffy pyjamas and a good book.

Playing Jenga - I was re-reading My Hygge Home by Meik Wiking (a great book!) and enjoying all the beautiful hygge photographs, including one of a Jenga game in progress which inspired me to get out my set. It's such a fun game, it doesn't take long to play and it always brings a smile to even the grumpiest faces.

What have you been enjoying recently?

Shower enclosure trends to look for in 2025

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Innovative Features to Look for in Modern Shower Enclosures

Innovative shower solutions are a hallmark of modern bathrooms, and choosing the right shower enclosure is crucial for creating a comfortable, stylish, and functional space. Therefore, the latest shower enclosure designs focus on enhancing the overall shower experience. 

Here are the innovative features to consider when buying a shower enclosure in 2025.

Walk in Shower Enclosures and Frameless Glass Design

More and more homeowners are opting for open shower spaces for a spa-like shower experience. That’s why wet rooms and walk-in shower enclosures with no shower doors are high in demand.  Additionally, minimalist and sleek frameless glass panels are preferred for creating an airy feel in the bathroom. Beyond aesthetics, they are easier to clean due to fewer crevices for dirt and grime accumulation. 

Advantages:

● Clean, modern look

● Minimal maintenance

● Increases the sense of space

Smart Glass Technology

Smart glass technology is an innovative concept that will soon be available for smart bathrooms. The smart shower panels will take the shower experience to whole new levels of comfort. You will be able to switch between transparent to frosted glass with a flick or through mobile a. This feature can be a game changer for shared bathrooms by offering on-demand privacy. Additionally, such glass panels may be integrated with many advanced features like ambient lighting or mirrors etc. offering full control over the shower experience with a touch screen. 

Benefits:

● On-demand privacy

● Easy to maintain

● Adds a tech-savvy element to the bathroom

Hydrophobic Glass Coatings

Modern shower spaces are all about making shower experiences pleasant. But hard water, and soap deposit stains on glass panels make it hard to keep the shower enclosure in pristine condition. Repeated cleaning can also cause lasting damage to the surface. Therefore, hydrophobic glass coating is a highly desirable feature in modern shower enclosures. This innovative solution reduces the chance of water spots, and soap scum built up making the glass look pristine for longer. 

Advantages:

● Reduced water stains

● Low-maintenance upkeep

● Keeps the enclosure looking new

Curved or Quadrant and Offset Designs

Quadrant and offset quadrant shower enclosures are an excellent choice due to their stylish curved design. They offer space saving without compromising the aesthetics. Curved glass panels offer a modern touch while offering more room for a spacious shower experience. Additionally, they are suitable for corner fitting making them a suitable choice for bathrooms with odd layouts. 

Features:

● Space-saving design

● Adds visual appeal

● Ideal for smaller bathrooms

Sliding and Pivot Door Mechanisms

Sliding and pivot shower doors have become a preferred choice for all types of shower spaces. Sliding doors are a perfect choice for small bathrooms, while pivot door offers wide and easy access to shower areas coupled with smooth operations. You may choose a shower door with a soft closing mechanism that prevents slamming or noise for enhanced comfort, safety and longevity. 

Key Points:

● Space-efficient sliding doors

● Smooth, user-friendly operation

● Soft-close for durability

Customizable Finishes and Hardware

Interior design experts recommend moving beyond standard chrome and nickel shower enclosure frames. Black and gold are trending choices to add a modern touch to your bathroom. These colours are timeless and can create a powerful contrast between dark and light colours. Additionally, you can create a personalized look by choosing customizable handles, hinges and towel radiators. 

Options:

● Wide variety of finishes

● Customizable hardware

● Adds a personalized touch to the bathroom

Steam Shower Integration

Modern bathrooms are designed to promote health and well-being. A steam shower is an excellent option for someone looking for a spa-like experience without having to leave your house. It offers various health benefits including improved blood circulation, relaxing muscles, reduced blood pressure etc. You can simply turn your regular shower into a steam room by installing a steam shower or shower body jet with digital control for a personalised shower experience. 

Advantages:

● Health benefits like relaxation and detoxification

● Spa-like experience at home

● Adds luxury to your bathroom

LED Lighting and Digital Controls

The use of LED lighting and digital shower controls in the shower enclosure is on the rise. The LED lights help create the desired ambiance and illuminate the space while digital controls like thermostatic shower valves provide full control over settings, water flow and even sound systems. Not only do these enhance the functionality of the shower space but also offer a personalised shower experience. 

Innovations:

● Ambient lighting for a luxury feel

● Digital controls for personalized settings

● Integrate music and other smart features

Anti-Slip Shower

Safety is a top priority in modern bathrooms, especially for the children, elderly or people with limited mobility. Many modern shower enclosures now have anti-slip shower trays for enhanced safety and reliability. These grippy and highly slippery shower trays are treated with an anti-slip coating like polyurethane to reduce slips when wet. Slate effect shower trays are becoming a popular choice due to their luxurious look and anti-slip features. 

Key Safety Features:

● Textured surfaces for grip

● Available in a range of styles

● Enhances safety without affecting aesthetics

Water-Saving Features

Eco-friendliness has become a desirable feature in modern bathrooms. There are various ways to reduce water usage in the shower area. You may incorporate eco-friendly shower heads, built-in timers, and flow restrictors to reduce water consumption.

Benefits:

● Reduces water usage

● Lower utility bills

● Environmentally friendly

Final Thoughts

Bathroom Trends for 2025 hints at a transformative era in shower enclosure designs. Future shower spaces will be packed with a variety of features to enhance convenience, safety and style. Personal well-being, health, eco-friendliness, hygiene, and spa-like ambience should be the priority for someone looking to upgrade their shower space. Additionally, there will be a gradual shift towards technology integration making tech-enabled shower panels increasingly common. 

A hole in the side of the house

I may have been a little quiet on the blog recently, but it hasn't been at all quiet in our house!

We are currently carrying out a project which we have been planning for a long time - we are adding an orangery extension. We've been half thinking about it since we moved in, and so we never did any other work to the house in case it would turn out to be a waste of time and money. 

Finally at the beginning of the year we started to plan more seriously and began to put some ideas together. We had to wait for it to go through planning permission because we are joining to the garage, but fortunately it was accepted with no problems. 

It's the first time that we've been involved in a project like this and we haven't really known what to expect. We've been watching time lapse videos of similar projects on YouTube to get a feel for the order in which things will happen. This also inspired my husband to buy his own time lapse camera to record the progress which is fantastic to watch back and I'll definitely be sharing it when it's all done!

It seemed to take a while to really get going - we had problems with unexpected pipes in the wrong places and then the weather was atrocious. For a long time all we had to look at was a muddy back garden full of holes. But then the beautiful red brick walls went up, and this week the wooden structure is being built, and that has really given us a feel for how it's going to look. 

Currently most of the back of the house is missing, with wooden boards and tarpaulin the only protection from the elements. It was fine at first, but as the weather has got colder and windier it has felt a little bit as though I'm preparing food outdoors! Luckily the front of the house has escaped unscathed so we have the living room to retreat to, and we've not suffered at all with any dust or mess.

We are a couple of weeks away from having a sealed structure, and then the work will move indoors with plastering, tiling and a new kitchen. It should all be complete well before the end of the year, and I'm really looking forward to a Christmas at home with a new kitchen to cook in and stars to gaze at through the ceiling!

The pros and cons of using a property management company

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Buying a second property and renting it out can be a great idea if you've got spare cash you're looking to invest and want to create a nest egg for the future. Many new landlords though worry about the responsibility that comes with having tenants and choose to use a property management company instead to manage the day-to-day work that comes with being a landlord such as keeping on top of repairs and inspections.

In their article, we'll look at some of the pros and cons of using a property management company versus doing it yourself to help you decide which might be the right option for you.

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The pros of hiring property managers

Time-saving

Let’s face it, managing rental properties is a time-consuming task - it's one of those jobs that ends up taking up way more of your time than you bargained for, especially if you have issues such as unreliable tenants, tenants leaving unexpectedly or emergency maintenance issues. 

Expertise and experience

Property management companies have a wealth of experience and specialised knowledge and if you're a new landlord it might be safest from a legal perspective to hand this over to someone in the know. They'll know the ins and outs of tenant laws, and the rules around selling properties with tenants and will have established relationships with trusted contractors. 

Help to find reliable tenants

Finding reliable tenants is one of the biggest challenges for landlords, so property management companies have robust screening processes to ensure you get quality tenants who pay rent on time and take good care of your property. They also handle tenant relations, so you won’t have to deal with complaints or disputes directly.

The cons of hiring property managers

The cost

A property management company will normally charge you either a fixed fee, a percentage of the rent, or a mix of both, and if you're close to break even as it is then this could be prohibitive. You've still got to factor in tax on your rental income and repair costs, so for some landlords, especially those with a single property, this extra expense might outweigh the benefits.

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Loss of control

When you hire a property management company, you’re entrusting them with the day-to-day operations of your property. This means you’ll have less direct control over decisions and tenant interactions, meaning it's not the ideal choice for people who find it hard to delegate decision-making.

Variable quality

Unfortunately, not all property management companies are created equal and the quality of service can vary hugely between different companies. One of the best ways to choose an agency to work with is via a personal recommendation from someone you trust who has direct experience working with them in a professional capacity. 

Deciding whether or not using a property management company is the right decision for you will depend on lots of factors, including your level of experience, the amount of time you have available and how much you can afford to give away from your monthly rental income. We hope this has given you a starting point though to help you make the right choice for you.

My favourite quotes about books and reading

Today I'm sharing some of my favourite quotes about books and reading!

"Wear the old coat and buy the new book." - Austin Phelps

"Where is human nature so weak as in the bookstore?" - Henry Ward Beecher

"Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body." - Joseph Addison

"Reading gives us someplace to go when we have to stay where we are." – Mason Cooley

"I cannot remember the books I've read any more than the meals I have eaten; even so, they have made me." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"To acquire the habit of reading is to construct for yourself a refuge from almost all the miseries of life." - W. Somerset Maugham

"That’s the thing about books. They let you travel without moving your feet." - Jhumpa Lahiri

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"Once you've read a book you care about, some part of it is always with you." – Louis L'Amour

"A room without books is like a body without a soul." – Marcus Tullius Cicero

"Reading is an exercise in empathy; an exercise in walking in someone else’s shoes for a while." – Malorie Blackman

"Some books are so familiar that reading them is like being home again." – Louisa May Alcott, Little Women

"The best moments in reading are when you come across something – a thought, a feeling, a way of looking at things – which you had thought special and particular to you. Now here it is, set down by someone else, a person you have never met, someone even who is long dead. And it is as if a hand has come out and taken yours." - Alan Bennett

"Books serve to show a man that those original thoughts of his aren’t very new after all." - Abraham Lincoln

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"A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies... The man who never reads lives only one." - George R.R.Martin

"There is nothing more luxurious than eating while you read—unless it be reading while you eat." - E. Nesbit

"Always read something that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it." - P.J. O’Rourke

"Fill your house with stacks of books, in all the crannies and all the nooks." - Dr. Seuss

"The only thing you absolutely have to know is the location of the library." - Albert Einstein

"Never trust anyone who has not brought a book with them." - Lemony Snicket

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"There are many little ways to enlarge your child’s world. Love of books is the best of all." - Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis

"So please, oh please, we beg, we pray, go throw your TV set away, and in its place you can install a lovely bookshelf on the wall." - Roald Dahl

"Books and doors are the same thing. You open them, and you go through into another world." - Jeanette Winterson

"Read the best books first, or you may not have a chance to read them at all." - Henry David Thoreau

"A classic is a book that has never finished saying what it has to say." - Italo Calvino

"I kept always two books in my pocket, one to read, one to write in." - Robert Louis Stevenson

Five top road trips from Wellington

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Wellington is a brilliant destination to visit in its own right. But New Zealand’s capital, near the southernmost point of Te Ika-a-Māui, is also the gateway to a number of fantastic road trips across both the North and South Islands.

Incorporating everything from geothermal wonders and international wine regions to soaring mountains and magnificent beaches, there are plenty of places you can visit to satisfy your wanderlust.

In this post, we’ll highlight five of the best road trips you can take from Wellington. Whichever one(s) you decide to do, you are sure to experience the magic of Aotearoa.

Wellington to Napier

If you’ve got one to three days spare, a Wellington to Napier self drive road trip is a must. 

It will take you about 4 hours and 15 minutes to cover the 323 km distance, but once you are there, you’ll discover a fabulous 1930s Art-Deco city that is well known for being the epicentre of the famous Hawkes Bay wine-growing region.

The quickest way to get to Napier from Wellington is to go on State Highway 50 via the Port City of Porirua. However, it’s well worth investing an extra 10 minutes of driving time to embark on the scenic journey through the Hutt Valley.

The highlight of doing so is undoubtedly Cape Kidnappers, which might sound like a foreboding place to visit but actually showcases tremendous views of jagged cliffs.

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Wellington to Cape Palliser

For those who are short on time, the drive from Wellington to Cape Palliser is a good option. It will only take two hours, which means you can easily cover the 121 km distance there and back in the space of an afternoon. 

This part of the country, which takes you along spectacular coastal roads, is renowned for its fascinating colonial and Maori heritage sites. It is also home to the wonderful Cape Palliser Lighthouse which dates back to 1897 and showcases incredible panoramic views of the dangerous waters of Pallier Bay. Although you will have to climb 250 steps to take it all in.

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If you’d rather do something a little less strenuous, nearby Martinborough has some of New Zealand’s best vineyards.

Wellington to Nelson

Nelson has a reputation for being the sunniest city in New Zealand. So, if the inclement weather is getting you down, why not drive the 212 km distance to top up your tan?

You’ll take around six hours to get there if you drive non-stop, but most people complete this journey within 3 to 5 days, partly because it also involves taking the ferry over from the North Island.

Nelson buzzes with personality as a city. It is home to several art galleries, botanic gardens, farmers markets, and a notable food scene, which provides plenty to see and do.

However, if you have time, make a point of driving about an hour south of the CBD to Nelson Lakes National Park. This park represents the gateway to the Southern Alps, which will blow you away with its stunning glaciers, rugged mountains and dense beech forests. 

Wellington to the South Island West Coast

If you fancy embarking on a longer road trip from Wellington, take the Great Coast Road down the west coast of the South Island.

Many travel experts regard this drive as one of the best in the world as it includes the jaw-dropping Paparoa National Park, which accommodates the iconic Punakaiki Pancake Rocks and Blowhole.

Most people take around 3 to 5 days to complete the 719 km distance, although the more days you can spare the better.

During this drive you’ll take in the incredible Fox and Franz Josef Glaciers. Both of which can be easily accessed by road. These glaciers can be walked on, but they are dangerous. So, make sure you hire a local tour guide if you want to do this.

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If your budget allows, hire a helicopter for a once-in-a-lifetime ride over the glaciers. Make sure you have your cameras at the ready!

Wellington to Queenstown (via Christchurch) 

Another road trip for adventurous souls takes you from New Zealand’s capital via Christchurch to Queenstown. You can even do it from Nelson, too.

Ideally, you should set aside about a week to do this 912km trip as both destinations have plenty to keep you occupied. Again, it will involve taking the ferry to the South Island. However, once you have done this, stop by Kaikoura, which is one of the country’s best spots for whale-watching.

Christchurch is the second-biggest city in New Zealand. While there, you can check out fabulous attractions like the International Antarctic Centre and Quake City. You should also devote a day to visiting Arthur’s Pass National Park, one of the most scenic and highest routes within the Southern Alps.

To get to Queenstown, take Highway 8, a scenic drive that passes some of New Zealand’s main landscape highlights, including Aoraki Mount Cook, Lake Tekapo, and Lindis Pass.

Queenstown is also the ‘Adventure Capital of the World’. So, once you arrive, why not take the opportunity to go bungee jumping, jet boating or skydiving?

Well in to my forties and still collecting stickers

One of my prized possessions from childhood is my sticker album. Sticker collecting and swapping was a huge craze back when I was in Year 8 - over thirty years ago! 

I loved collecting stickers. There was a gift shop in my Grandma's town that had a wall filled with rolls of stickers with individual sheets to tear off for pennies. I used to make special trips and spend ages choosing which ones to buy. Then I enjoyed swapping them with friends and arranging them on the pages of my album by type and design. 

Recently my daughter became interested in stickers, and of course there are so many more sticker options around now. Until now I've been watching from the side lines, but on her most recent order from Stationery Pal I couldn't resist adding a few packs in for myself. Then we did a joint order from AliExpress and added some more stickers to the collection. They are so cheap, there are so many varied designs, and really good quality!

As a teenager I favoured the felt and glittery stickers, particularly of animals. Now I find myself drawn to florals, botanicals and vintage designs like postage stamps or old pieces of writing.

I love anything related to travel...

...and I particularly adore stickers that come in little boxes or are bound into tiny books.

What do I do with all these stickers? Well I must admit that many of my purchases are purely for the joy of collecting them. I have some free pages in my album, and I've been filling those up with my absolute favourites! 

I also use them to decorate my bullet journal and as accents in my illustrated journal. I add them to cards that I'm sending and to letters that I'm writing. I have one on my water bottle, my phone case and on the fronts of notebooks. My daughter and I also have fun laying them out to admire together and to swap with each other. 

I think it's a harmless and cheap hobby!

What I've been up to lately - September 2024

I know I've been a bit quiet here recently - here are some of the things that I've been up to:

Reading

I am reading loads at the moment! The other day I shared a list of books that I've enjoyed recently, and I've read several more since then. I have a big stash of books by the side of my bed to get through but I couldn't resist a trip to the library earlier this week when my daughter had an after school rehearsal. I was really pleased to find a copy of Really Good, Actually by Monica Heisey which has been on my radar for some time, so that will be my next read. 

Shopping

I don't shop a great deal, but I have had some treats this month. My daughter recently introduced me to Stationery Pal which is an online stationery shop and it's amazing. It's based in China so there is a hefty charge for shipping, usually around £8-10. But if you are putting together a reasonably large order then the prices are so good and the products so unique that it makes up for it. As an example, I bought a pack of five excellent gel pens for just 8p! In the past I've just purchased things for my daughter but this time we did a joint shop and I got myself some lovely stickers, pens and washi tape. You can see a short Instagram story of the things we bought here - Stationery Pal Mum and Daughter Haul.

Watching 

We are working our way through The Rings of Power which isn't bad, it's quite watchable. But I just keep thinking that it's nowhere close to being as good as the Lord of the Rings trilogy, which I can watch over and over and never get bored! I do like the lovely scenery and costumes, especially the parts with the elves.

Listening to

It's back to the school run which means plenty of time to listen to Spotify in the car. I have a few Zoe Science and Nutrition podcasts to catch up on from over the summer and I'm also enjoying listening to Pulp at the moment. I also have a great playlist called 'Jen's car singing playlist' which is songs that I know all the words to and can belt out as I'm driving along, I probably get some funny looks from other drivers!

Learning

Our school has set up a Duolingo challenge for parents and students which promises prizes, so I have downloaded the app and got stuck in. It has become very competitive! I've decided to learn German which some might say is a bit of a cheat as I do have a degree in German. But that was a long, long time ago, and I'm really enjoying refreshing my skills. I've also not started from scratch, I've gone in at Section 4 which is quite advanced. I'm pretty good at the listening, speaking and reading, but my written German definitely needs some work. All that grammar has been long forgotten!

Crafting

I've taken out my Olde World Map cross stitch project again this week. I'm finding it really difficult! Especially at this time of year when the light isn't as good, many of the colours are very similar. I'm also enjoying working on my journal, especially with all my lovely new stationery. I enjoy setting up pages with washi tape and stickers and using a coloured pen to write. I get inspired by seeing journal spreads on social media, even though I know that they've been created purely as shareable content!

Planning

At the moment we are partway through a large building project, an orangery extension. It's something that we've been thinking about since we moved in over 12 years ago, and it's very exciting. We've never done any work to the house so it's all new to us, luckily we have a project manager to help us. But there has been so much planning required. We are having a new kitchen too and we are quite picky so we designed it all ourselves which took many hours. There are just so many decisions to be made! 

We are a few weeks in now and in the middle of the chaos, but hopefully it will be completed by the end of the year. 

Eating

I've been busy trying to eat up as much food as I can before we have to empty the kitchen, so lots of tinned tomatoes and beans. I really changed my eating habits at the beginning of the year, and I'm pleased to say that I've managed to keep up with it really well. I cut way down on my intake of ultra-processed foods and I just generally try to be a bit more mindful with what I'm eating. I did lose quite a bit of weight in the early months although I've noticed it creeping back on over the summer - I still eat quite a lot of calories even though they are healthier ones! I'm not too worried though because I think that my diet is generally pretty good.

So we have a busy couple of months ahead with all the work going on, I'm hoping that I can find some peace and quiet and time to relax!

Review - Sakuraco monthly Japanese snack subscription box

I received this snack box in exchange for a review

Recently I was given the opportunity to try out a Sakuraco monthly Japanese subscription box. The boxes support local Japanese snack makers, and each box contains twenty traditional, authentic and artisan Japanese snacks and teas. The box also includes a lovely piece of special Japanese tableware which you can use to display and serve the snacks. 

I received the September 2024 box, which is themed around the Autumn Moon Festival. The box celebrates the Japanese tradition of viewing and embracing the serene beauty of the autumn moon, when people will often gather with friends and family to celebrate the changing seasons and connect with nature's rhythm. Several items in the box depict rabbits under the moonlight that represent the Moon Rabbit, a popular Japanese legend.

I love Japanese culture but I'm not very familiar with the food, so I was eager to try some different treats! All of the packaging is in Japanese, but the box comes with a booklet which contains detailed descriptions of the snacks alongside information about the makers and some cultural insights. There is also allergy information.

I had a lovely time trying out all the different treats and serving them to myself on the gorgeous rabbit plate! The portions were just the right size - small enough to be able to try several in one sitting, and large enough to give you a good impression of the treat. I particularly loved the Lemon Baked Chocolate in the paper case in the photograph above, it had a really crumbly texture and a sweet lemon flavour.

I also really enjoyed the Tsukimi Mikan Cream Cookie with a printed rabbit design, and the Custard Taiyaki sweet fish-shaped pastry which is sold on street stalls at this time of year. They were the ideal size to leave you satisfied and they paired perfectly with the Tsukimi Ryokucha green tea.

The box contained a great selection of savoury treats too, like these Black Sesame Miso Arare. They were satisfyingly crunchy and had an interesting mix of umami and sweet flavour. 

I really enjoyed the opportunity to try out this range of Japanese snacks and treats. I also loved the theming, and the snippets of information about Japanese culture that accompanied the various items. It was a really fun way to sample some Japanese flavours. The selection of snacks was varied and interesting and it felt as though there was plenty included.

You can find out more about the boxes here - Sakuraco Japanese snacks subscription boxes.

Some books that I've enjoyed recently

My To Be Read pile at the moment is huge! I recently got back into using our local library, I have a friend that regularly passes me piles of books, and I have a huge stash borrowed from my Mum, along with a few others that I've picked up here and there. I'm not daunted though, I love having a selection of books to choose from and work my way through. 

Here are some excellent books that I've enjoyed recently. All are written by women, all have one or more female protagonists who are both intelligent and creative, and three have the word 'book' in the title which is always a big draw for me!

The Night She Disappeared by Lisa Jewell

I don't read many psychological thriller type books, but I have enjoyed several by Lisa Jewell and this one was gripping! It's about a teenage mum and her boyfriend who disappear on a night out, and a new resident who starts to uncover clues to the disappearance. I felt that there were lots of different ways that the story could play out, and it really kept me guessing.

Book Lovers by Emily Henry

This romantic comedy is a bit of a twist on the 'uptight city girl moves to the country and falls in love with a handsome local' trope which I liked, as I've read many books that follow plot! Maybe it's a little predictable, but it was a really enjoyable read with plenty of romance, a traditional bookshop that needs a helping hand, and a few twists and turns.

Yellowface by R. F. Kuang

I've been wanting to read this for ages, and I wasn't disappointed. The book tells the story of a failed writer who witnesses her rival die in a freak accident and takes the opportunity to update and publish her unfinished novel. The catch is that she's a white author rewriting a story about Chinese history, she makes her own biased revisions to the story, and she publishes it under a version of her name which makes her appear Chinese. It's beautifully written, really engaging, and I always love an unreliable narrator. Lots of insights too into the cut throat writing industry, and how some authors and up at the top while others fade into obscurity.

The Marriage Portrait by Maggie O'Farrell

Maggie O'Farrell is a favourite author, so I was pleased to spot this recent release at the library. It's a historical novel, inspired by the poem My Last Duchess. In sixteenth century Florence, sixteen year old Lucrezia is married off to a Duke, and the story charts Lucrezia's childhood, as well as jumping ahead to when she starts to suspect her husband is going to try and kill her. It's beautifully written, quite long and slow moving and although the outcome is made clear from the beginning, the ending isn't quite as expected. 

The Book Share by Phaedra Patrick

This was a fun read about a housekeeper and aspiring author who finds herself entrusted with finishing her employer's final novel. I don't have any aspirations to write a book of my own but I love reading about people who do, and imagining what it would be like to be a writer. It was a simple and quick read, humorous, with plenty of engaging characters.

The Lost Bookshop by Evie Woods

This was a magical story and beautifully written story about a mysterious bookshop and the three people that it brings together. It was a really enjoyable read and I loved all the characters as well as the literary references and the unusual story. Great for a bit of escapism.

Photo credit Lenin Estrada via Unsplash

A couple of hours in Bruges from Zeebrugge

A couple of weeks ago we enjoyed a last minute short cruise aboard the Disney Dream, travelling from Southampton with a day in Zeebrugge and a day at sea. Zeebrugge is just a busy port, but it's a great cruise stop if you want to visit Bruges or Brussels. We had a lovely day out in Bruges last year, and so we decided to go back and enjoy some sightseeing and a Belgian waffle.

We had an activity on the ship in the morning, so we only had a few hours to spend ashore. Luckily our ship departure time wasn't until very late at 10pm, so we had plenty of contingency for getting back onboard. Last year we took a taxi from the port which was very easy but also quite pricey, so this time we decided to do the journey by train at a fraction of the cost.

It was all very easy. Zeebrugge port offers free shuttle buses from the ship to both the main cruise terminal (where you can pick up a taxi) or to the nearby town of Blankenberge. We had a quick walk around Blankenberge and it was lovely, very busy with plenty of shops and bars and a sandy beach. If you are stopping in Zeebrugge on a cruise you could easily just take advantage of the free shuttle and enjoy yourself here.

The shuttle dropped us just outside the station, and we purchased our train tickets in advance online. It takes just over ten minutes to travel to Bruges, and the main reason that we wanted to take the train was so that we could travel on a double decker train which was very exciting!

Bruges station is central, and you can take a nice walk through the park to reach the centre, passing some beautiful bridges and canals on the way. The main streets of the city were very busy, but there were plenty of quiet streets with beautiful buildings to enjoy.

This year we decided not to do a canal boat tour again, but you can read about how we did it here - A canal tour in Bruges. It's all very well organised. Last year we arrived early to avoid the queues, but the lines didn't look too bad when we went past, and it it's a first trip to Bruges I would definitely recommend it.

We returned to a tried and tested favourite for our waffles - Chez Albert on Breidelstraat located just off the Market Square. It's a takeaway but there are places to sit nearby if you don't mind perching on a wall or in a doorway. The queue was short, the menu was simple, the Belgian flag is a nice touch, the sturdy cutlery very much appreciated, and of course it tasted delicious! 

Breidelstraat is a beautiful street filled with intriguing little shops, and so while the sugar hit from the waffles wore off we had a lovely walk up and down doing some window shopping. Then we made our way back to the station for a train back to Blankenberge, and a return to the Disney magic onboard.

Going on a Disney cruise - some Pixie Dust ideas

We were recently lucky enough to take a short weekend Disney cruise which we booked last minute at a fantastic rate. It was quite hectic, as many of our fellow cruisers were first time Disney cruisers and were keen to see and do everything!

One of the things that we love about a Disney cruise is that there are so many ways to add some magical extras to the trip, for example with organised gift exchanges, magnet swaps and door decorating.

Something that really took off in the Facebook and WhatsApp groups for this particular cruise was Pixie Dust. Pixie Dust is a small and inexpensive gift given without the expectation of receiving anything in return. It can be placed inside the Fish Extender of a stateroom that you like the look of, or handed out in person on the ship. Sometimes a cruise group will set up a list of people that want to give and receive Pixie Dust, and some people prefer to gift at random.

We've given out lots of Pixie Dust on previous cruises, and I've also shared some Pixie Dust ideas for a Halloween cruise. Based on the Pixie Dust that we received on this cruise, I thought I'd share some of the things that went down particularly well!

How to package Pixie Dust

I am still working through my fabric stash, so I made lots of very simple drawstring bags. You can also use plastic bags, paper bags, wrap in paper or tissue paper, or just give out unwrapped. Some people put a lot of thought into the presentation of their items, with glitter, sequins and stickers.

Most people put a small note or gift tag with their cabin number. You don't have to do this, but it is probably a good idea to at least label it as Pixie Dust so that new cruisers aren't confused and think they have received something by mistake. 

Homemade Pixie Dust ideas

Magnets - this could be a simple laminated picture. In the past I've designed magnets which are specific to the cruise with destinations, flags, or a picture that I've taken of the ship. I've also made Hama bead Disney magnets which are really simple and fun.

Bookmarks - If you have a laminator these are really easy to make, just print out your designs, laminate, then add a ribbon.

Bracelets - Homemade bracelets are really easy and inexpensive to make and people love wearing them to remind them of their cruise.

Pirate Night themed Pixie Dust

If you are lucky enough to be sailing on a cruise with a themed Pirate Night then pirate themed gifts are a great idea! Some ideas - chocolate coins, temporary tattoos, glow sticks or bubbles for the deck party, plastic jewellery, inflatable cutlasses, eye patches.

Other Pixie Dust ideas

Sweets - This was probably the most popular Pixie Dust received by our family! Small packs of Haribo, Maoam bars or similar. Also small chocolates like chocolate coins or fun size bars. Just make sure that they are all individually wrapped.

Stickers - You can buy large packs of Disney or ocean themed stickers and add a few to each package.

Pens - There are lots of Disney themed pens available in multipacks that can be broken down for individual gifts. I always appreciate a nice pen!

Magnets - We received some lovely tiny Disney themed magnets, they were so sweet! You can often buy these in bulk and separate out.

Ducks - People love to hide ducks when cruising (that's a whole other topic!) and we were thrilled to receive a full size Belle duck and also some cute tiny plastic ducks.

Bubbles - There will probably be some kind of deck party on your cruise, for example a Pirate or Frozen themed party. Blowing bubbles is a great way to keep little ones entertained while you wait for the party to start. Just make sure to pack them securely!

Clothes pegs - This might sound an odd one, but one year we received a couple of Mickey Mouse clothes pegs and I love them, they always make me smile when I hang out the washing! I assume that they were part of a large set and given out a couple at a time.

Jewellery - I love any kind of inexpensive jewellery that I can wear on the cruise, on future cruises, and when I'm back home. I received a lovely mermaid ring and necklace which I wore on Pirate Night.

Patches - These can be sewn onto bags or hats as a reminder of the trip.

Pins - Official Disney pins would be an expensive and generous Pixie Dust gift, but you can also buy cheaper pins with a nautical or ocean theme which would make a lovely gift.

Temporary tattoos - These are always fun to apply and wear around the ship.

Reusable straws - I saw someone on our cruise giving these out and thought that this was a great idea as the paper straws supplied on board can be a little flimsy.

Keyrings - Again something that you can buy in bulk, we received some lovely glitter Mickey head keyrings in different colours.

Many of these items can be purchased in bulk from places like Amazon, AliExpress or Temu and can be very reasonable in terms of cost. And or course not everything has to be Disney themed - you could look for a nautical theme, an ocean theme, pirates and mermaids and so on.

I hope that you find some ideas to inspire you, and have fun joining in with Pixie Dust gifts on your next Disney cruise!